It didn’t take much persuasion when my youngest son phoned and said, “Mother, you have a birthday on October 1st. You haven’t treated yourself in a while. What about a birthday trip to Paris?“
Jonathan offered to accompany me and be my travel guide. This is the son whose adolescence antics drove me up the wall. Maturity is a blessed occurrence.
After an agonizing bumper-to-bumper taxi ride from the airport, we settled into our Airbnb in the bustling Marais neighborhood. My large bedroom window faced a gothic church whose magnificent stained glass windows lit up at night, welcoming me to Paris.

The church seen from my bedroom, an elegant candy shop, an antique toy store and the Pompidou’s exterior
Our agenda was carefree. We got up, wandered into a boulangerie for café au lait and a croissant before exploring the side streets over the more commercial aspects of major boulevards. We loafed in beautiful city parks, indulged in patisseries, and window-shopped among the tiny specialty stores in Saint Germain, where stores often featured a single product, like antique toys, silk scarves or artisan kitchen knives. We were deliberate in visiting the Louvre and the Pompidou museum. The latter’s modern art collection and views of the Paris skyline blew me away.
Jonathan was masterful in tracking down intimate bistros tucked away in cobblestone alleys. We noted how much smaller the portions were than in the States, wondering if this was a factor in America’s overweight population.
While the French may have a healthier diet, they still smoke a lot. We passed a lycee where throngs of students were smoking; mothers pushing toddlers in strollers and even elderly couples smoked.
We spent half a day at the vast Luxembourg Gardens, lounging by a mammoth fountain, and watching older couples play cards and chess. The manicured formal gardens are still a Parisian hallmark, but in many areas they were replaced by wild flowers and free form plantings. I counted only a handful of French citizens reading newspapers like, Le Monde or Le Figaro. French of all ages were glued to their phones, just like in the States.