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A Visit from the Grands, Writing My Family History, 2 Films & More!

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Grands Visit

Last week, my two grands, Jane, 17 and her brother Max, almost 16, flew from Chicago to Portland to visit me.  It was our first time together since Christmas, 2019.  Since then Max has grown to 6 feet.  Jane’s funky-thrift shop look is now off the charts.  We had fun even though the cold and rain pre-empted beach time.  We walked a lot, eat out a lot, while Nana bemoaned the grands’ phone addiction.  Egad, I have a Zombie Generation on my hands!

Pat Taub, WOW blog, Portland, Maine

Max and Jane at a Portland pizza joint

 

Family History Project

I’ve made a summer project of recording my family history in the form of antidotes and stories about my family and my growing-up.  It’s been both fun and sad as I recall eccentrics, like Great Aunt Leona and her pet monkey, along with unhappy characters like my paternal grandmother, who was demanding and sharp-tongued.  To enhance my craft I’ve been reading Stephen King’s book, “On Writing.”  Mary Karr’s book, “The Art of Memoir,” is next in line.

 

 

Depressing State of Affairs

As a recovering news junkie it’s difficult to maintain my cheerful demeanor as I read about the record-setting heat waves; Florida’s rising sea waters; political corruption at record levels along with off-the-charts income inequalities.  I take solace in my little country retreat, about an hour and a half from my Portland home.  Here I take country walks, read without city noises, and count my blessings.

Pat Taub, WOW blog, Portland, Maine

Garden in front of my country retreat

 

 

A Must See Food Documentary

Recently I watched the first episode of “High on the Hog,” a 4 part Netflix series about African cuisine.  Episode #1 was filmed in Benin, showcasing colorful markets with exotic vegetables. The market scenes are narrated by Jessica B. Harris, the cookbook author whose book, “High on the Hog: A Culinary Journey from Africa to America,” is the basis for the documentary.   Harris is accompanied on her market and restaurant visits by Stephen Satterfield, a food writer and trained chef. I learned that African yams and American sweet potatoes are two entirely different vegetables.

Pat Taub, WOW blog, Portland, Maine

Stephen Satterfield and Jessica B. Harris in a Benin market (Netflix)

 

Bill Murray Fans

I enjoyed Sofia Coppola’s new film, “On the Rocks,” (Apple TV) starring Bill Murray as a charming man about town, whose married daughter enlists him when she suspects her husband of having an affair.  The director, Sophia Coppola, specializes in films showcasing Murray’s charm and comedic genius. This movie reminded me of Murray’s star turn in “Lost in Translation.”

Pat Taub, WOW blog, Portland, Maine

Bill Murray and Rashida Jones, leads in “On the Rocks”

 

 

 

Pat Taub is a family therapist, writer and activist and life-long feminist. She hopes that WOW will start a conversation among other older women who are fed up with the ageism and sexism in our culture and are looking for cohorts to affirm their value as an older woman.

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