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Lisa Montgomery, Home Altar, “Suffragette” & More!

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Lisa Montgomery

A story that got lost in last week’s horrific storming of the capital is that of Lisa Montgomery, the first woman prisoner executed since 1952.  Montgomery was imprisoned for a horrific murder that has been attributed to the extreme sexual and physical abuse she endured growing up. Serendipitously, I had just finished the book, Change of Heart by Jeanne Bishop, an account of how Bishop tracked down her sister’s killer, visiting him in prison for months, where the two slowly developed a relationship, making it possible for Bishop to forgive him. This is a beautiful story of restorative justice, which we can all apply as we try to understand those with whom we differ.

Pat Taub, WOW blog, Portland, Maine

Lisa Montgomery, 52, who received a fatal injection on Jan. 11, 2021.

 

A Home Altar

Feeling spiritual this week, and needing solace for managing all the hate erupting around me, I created a small altar in my study.  I’ve had altars in other homes, but neglected one in my current space until now.  It’s assembled on a small table overlooking my right shoulder when I type.  My altar is draped with my grandmother’s shawl, showcasing a photo of much younger grands as a flower girl and ring bearer at a family wedding. In addition there’s a photo of my mother around my age, the requisite Buddha and other memorabilia.  My study feels infinitely happier thanks to my little altar.

 

Suffragette, The Movie

Experiencing political despair and wanting inspiration for the long haul, I re-watched the 2015 film, Suffragette. It’s the story of the British women’s suffrage movement of the late 19th and early 20th century, starring Carey Mulligan, Helena Bonham Carter and Meryl Streep. Inspired by true events, Suffragette concentrates on the experiences and roles of working-class women in the British struggle for women’s right to vote.  As the credits rolled, I felt newly charged to do my small part for peace and justice.

 

Promising Vaccine News

My state of Maine announced this week that adults over 70 could receive their first vaccine shot in two weeks!  The caveat is that the roll-our remains vague. The newspaper story reported that there will be online registration with shots given on a first-come, first served basis.  I hope this isn’t a prescription for chaos. Yet I’m thrilled because I’m over 70 and more than ready to be vaccinated.

 

Mask Reminder

Walking around my neighborhood recently, I took a picture of this large billboard, drawn in the style of pop artist, Roy Lichtenstein.  I’m pleased to live in a city and state that is taking Covid seriously.  Recently Dr. Fauci cautioned that even with the vaccine widely administered, we will still have to wear masks through 2021.   If only there was a mask that kept my glasses from fogging!

 

 

 

 

Pat Taub is a family therapist, writer and activist and life-long feminist. She hopes that WOW will start a conversation among other older women who are fed up with the ageism and sexism in our culture and are looking for cohorts to affirm their value as an older woman.

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